If they say bad things about me.（悪口を言われたら）

There are people who feel hurt when someone says bad things about them. However, there have always been people who say bad things. There have always been people who swear everywhere.

When they are quiet, they are mopey; when they talk a lot, they are chatty; when they speak reasonably, they are said to be up to something. It seems that everyone is made to swear, and this is what makes them feel good about themselves. I've had that experience myself.

Don't speak ill of others, and when others speak ill of you, don't listen to them.

誰かに悪口を言われて傷つきそうになる人がいる。とは言っても、悪口を言う奴は昔から必ずいる。昔から悪口は言う奴はどこにでもいるものさ。

静かにしているとむっつり、いっぱい話すとおしゃべり、理路整然に話すと何か企んでいると言われる。悪口は誰でも言われるようにできていてこれがまた快感を呼ぶらしい。自分もそんな体験がある。

反省！反省！悪口を言わず、他人に言われたら悪口なんて聞き流す。これ大事。